Do you feel the love in the air? No? We neither. Loving couples sometimes bump into this unbearable problem. Yesterday they felt unbelievably happy, and today one of them or both are disgusted by the fact that they are still together. Whether you did not match from scratch or the time spent as a couple had your feeling subsided, but the supposition is indisputable – you already know that nothing is going right.
1. You cannot imagine your future together.
Couples often spend a lot of time dreaming about their future life: choosing a color of your fence, picking names for your children, imagining your honeymoon trip to New Zealand, and so on. At once, these dreams might vanish irretrievably. You just cannot think of it any longer. The only thing you manage to fantasize of is how good it will be to spend a weekend without your dear one. Comparing to what you had before, this is an agony.
2. Your partner’s habits and behavior are not loveable anymore.
When the relationships are in their incipient stage, everything your beloved one does is colored with the charms of romance: food habits (for instance, adding sweet corn in every single dish) or the way he or she pronounces your name. If you feel nothing but an irritation observing these cute little things, you should consider leaving your partner. Later on, this frustration will grow into permanent and intolerable hatred.
3. Your sex life is a pitiful mess.
Yes, love without sex is possible. Nonetheless, most couples “prefer” to involve this conjoint satisfaction as an integrant part of their life. People often have problems with mutual understanding in bed, and sometimes it takes a great endeavor and certain amount of time to make your sex wonderful. If you are no longer interested in enlivening it (or having it with your actual partner at all), your partnership has probably reached the point of no return.
4. Your communication is nothing as it used to be.
Communication is one of the basic features of any relationship. Interesting dialogues, hot midnight discussion, plain everyday conversations, and little cheesy talks before falling asleep – everything collaborates to create perfect conditions for your couple. Sometimes your communication literally vanishes. No, it does not mean that you understand each other speechlessly. It means that you do not (or do not want no) understand each other even when you talk. As well, if you cannot
deal with troubles without arguing, you should better get going.
5. You subconsciously seek another partner.
Long gone the days when you were interested only in your beloved one. Now you look at other people and imagine how you spend your time with them, kiss them, and… do some other stuff with them. You might assume it is all about your insufficient and frustrating sex life, but it also involves the lack of affection in your current relationships.